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Title: Free time for games
Post by: andydavis on August 05, 2019, 05:19:18 pm
For those of you who work long hours and at places which are more than an hour's drive from home, how much free time do you have for games and how do you balance all of your chores and personal commitments/responsibilities to make time for games?

For me, during the weekdays, I normally play my games at the very end of the day after I have finished everything I need to do and would have about an hour or half of playtime before I go to sleep. On the weekends, I normally play during the late afternoon to evening unless there is an event planned on that day or guests are coming over. What about you guys?
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: undertakerprime on August 05, 2019, 05:26:58 pm
Free time? What’s that?

I’m married with 2 kids, and have a full time job. I rarely have time to play games until my daily responsibilities are done and everyone else has gone to bed.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: oldgamerz on August 05, 2019, 06:20:23 pm
I'm lucky to be able to play video games anytime. But most times I deal with a sickness that leaves me barely any time to feel like playing. I don't work. I do have some chores, but not vary many. My health is taking a downward spiral today, and if I could play more I would, but I don't. Until my health gets better, then right now maybe a couple hours a day if that even
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: bikingjahuty on August 05, 2019, 11:31:38 pm
I'm child free, but even so I have to usually squeeze in time for games, especially during the week. My GF and I share a car and so in the evening we often have to go out and do stuff since she can't during the day. It isn't uncommon for me to come home from work at 4pm and for the the two of us to run errands until around 8pm or so. I guess we just live fairly busy lives, but yeah, if I have more than two hours to devote to games each night I'm fairly lucky.


The weekend is a different story. I have way more free time typically and get my game on usually then, assuming I'm not going some place else.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: mark1982 on August 06, 2019, 10:25:16 am
Ah, the time management thread ;). As I get older with more responsibilities it's taking me ages to finish games.

I remember during my youth when I was in school or college I could binge play and burn through so many games I basically didn't have a backlog. My GF at the time was a huge Nintendo fan and played handheld JRPGs all night on the GBA while I was playing on console.

Now it's a different story, heh. Full time job with plenty of responsibilities, married and a newborn on the way (not to the Nintendo fan by the way, she moved to another country with her parents, still friends though). I play about an hour a night on days that I'm not totally tired. My routine is come back from work, spend time with the wife and have dinner, get a little workout in by lifting some weights and stretching to break a sweat, shower, read some gaming news and tend to other hobbies for a bit, then get an hour of gaming in before hopping into bed. Weekends I play a little longer, but it's still the last thing I do before I go to sleep.

I know that routine is gonna change once my newborn is here, and I'm totally okay with that. Have to find a new routine as long as family comes first ;D
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: ignition365 on August 06, 2019, 10:47:29 am
I have free time after my kid goes to bed.  Some of that time is spent with my SO, some of that time is spent playing games.  Weekends are similar.  I definitely don't have the time I used to and I put more time into handhelds than I used to.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: kashell on August 06, 2019, 12:35:19 pm
I make time.

Seriously though, I usually get in an hour or two during the weekdays and much more than that on weekends.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: wartoy on August 06, 2019, 06:16:16 pm
Mostly late night on friday or Saturday sometime after my gf falls asleep I'll play to about 6 or 7 in the morning.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: ferraroso on August 06, 2019, 07:35:12 pm
Mostly late night on friday or Saturday sometime after my gf falls asleep I'll play to about 6 or 7 in the morning.

My answer would be very similar to this, just change "gf" for "wife" and the "6 or 7" to "2 or 3"... I just don't have energy to stay awake all night anymore, haha.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: marvelvscapcom2 on August 06, 2019, 09:36:47 pm
Being kids free and engaged to a streamer comes with some benefits ;D.  It's basically her full time job so streaming with her and playing games is basically my bonding with her.  So devoting time to fun and games actually is basically my romance time and part of our bonding.  We do other things of course but gaming is never looked at as getting in the way.  It's our version of netflix or the monopoly board.


I could very easily devote maybe 60 hours a week to video games. Maybe 80ish?  But I stopped doing that because I was feeling horrible about myself if I did.  And it was interferring with other aspects of life.  So now I cut to maybe around 30-40 hours a week.  Especially on weekends. :)   But during my lowest points, especially in my teen years.  I could get up to unhealthy levels. close to 100 hours a week. 


As for my job, my job's hours are extremely lax and I almost dictate when or what I do. But of course I choose to work as much as I can due to more money.  But even when I get a huge work load, most days can be wrapped up by 4 pm (start at 7am) and I can have the rest of the night for whatever.  Which in all honesty usually goes to shopping for games or pops and then sometimes gaming parties with my friends when we play smash and such.  So I love the loose schedule :D.   


I have pondered getting a 2nd job just to double up money and be like Bill Gates but I think i'm comfortable now and would rather enjoy the freedom to have hobbies and stuff.  Especially with so many hobbies that I do have.  :)
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: marvelvscapcom2 on August 06, 2019, 09:41:13 pm
I have free time after my kid goes to bed.  Some of that time is spent with my SO, some of that time is spent playing games.  Weekends are similar.  I definitely don't have the time I used to and I put more time into handhelds than I used to.


That is like my brother too :).  Ever since he had a kid and has been working much more his time for games has gone way down. But his handheld usage and hours on 3DS have gone way way up.  He rarely plays on a home console but he has devoted well over 1,000 hours into Pokemon Y alone.  It's like you can do all the dadly things but still have the handheld for the bits of freetime you do get, like waiting at the doctors office or in lines and such.  Pretty neat how that happens :D.   

Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: oldgamerz on August 06, 2019, 10:47:12 pm
I had a relationship once, but she was just using me I believe today. Sometimes a relationship requires a lot of sacrifices especially if your partner does not have much interest in what you are interested in. I really can't sit through a lot of movies especially romantic comedies, or sometimes children shows or movies. If your partner lets you play games you're lucky, if you have children grown then you can teach them how to play games too.

it's not fun being cramped into a small apartment with 2 people with different interests, I was never fighting but I was vary depressed having someone living with me at the time.

 I could not handle the difficulty of a family and a full time job but I will honor anyone who has made that sacrifice for the sake of their family.

Just prepare to have an extra television and an extra room if you have young children or anyone else that may use the television
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: tripredacus on August 07, 2019, 10:09:08 am
During the week, I might have 2-3 hours to play a game. And that is not every day, as I will play pinball 1-2 times during the week, so no time for video games on those days. Weekends or holidays I can get in maybe 5 hours each day.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: emporerdragon on August 08, 2019, 12:37:19 am
My biggest problem is that I can't really enjoy bite-sized bits of gaming. When I game, I like it to be until "?"; having a set point in time where I must shut the game off or be tired and miserable the next day just dampens the experience. So, I can only really game on nights before my days off or on my day off.
What really sucks though is when my days off roll around, then I have to fill those days with all the stuff I cant do during my workdays like laundry or mowing the lawn.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: betelgeuse on August 08, 2019, 12:37:28 pm
My biggest problem is that I can't really enjoy bite-sized bits of gaming. When I game, I like it to be until "?"; having a set point in time where I must shut the game off or be tired and miserable the next day just dampens the experience. So, I can only really game on nights before my days off or on my day off.
What really sucks though is when my days off roll around, then I have to fill those days with all the stuff I cant do during my workdays like laundry or mowing the lawn.

This is why I’ve moved away from RPGs. I will never play another MMORPG for the same reason. I tend to do all my yard work, other duties etc as soon as I get home. I like to have the weekends wide open.

During the week I have an hour or two each day to game.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: oldgamerz on August 08, 2019, 06:13:16 pm
My biggest problem is that I can't really enjoy bite-sized bits of gaming. When I game, I like it to be until "?"; having a set point in time where I must shut the game off or be tired and miserable the next day just dampens the experience. So, I can only really game on nights before my days off or on my day off.
What really sucks though is when my days off roll around, then I have to fill those days with all the stuff I cant do during my workdays like laundry or mowing the lawn.

This is why I’ve moved away from RPGs. I will never play another MMORPG for the same reason. I tend to do all my yard work, other duties etc as soon as I get home. I like to have the weekends wide open.

During the week I have an hour or two each day to game.

Looks to me you 2 could use some older arcade ports or sports games, after all you can adjust how long a game will last on most sports titles. a good note is most sports video games have both an arcade mode and a simulation mode. like if you got only a half hour to play a game, no problem just pop in a sports video game and adjust the game to last 5 minutes per period of the game or half if you're playing something FIFA.

basketball games have 4 quarters and you can usually adjust how long each quarter of the game will last

Ice Hockey takes 3 periods of play and Golf, but remember Golf, can take a little longer to play a full round. Than most any other sports type of video games. Due to load times between holes

and remember even though the game say 20 minutes left (in hockey for example). As long as the options are set to 10 minutes per period before you started the game. Trust me the game section will only last 10 minutes in spite of what the in game clock says unless your game is a tie at the end you have overtime setting

But remember that all sports games will take more time then the game setting, Basketball with set on a 5 minute quarter will probably take within 30 minutes real time for playing the entire game through

And you can skip the cinematic in most sports games and replays as well by pressing one of the buttons continuously
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: sworddude on August 08, 2019, 07:40:44 pm
you've got to wonder how long adults with kids and few hours of free time a week to finish for example breath of the wild even withouth all korok seeds with plenty of time a day it could take at least 2 weeks. unless your  going barebones than it could be done allot quicker

my guess is that such people either don't attempt it or just play it a couple of hours per week and than moving on to another game since they don't have that much free time.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: turf on August 11, 2019, 09:14:36 pm
What’s time?

I don’t have near the time I’d like to have, but having my switch lying around sure helps sneak in some time here and there.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: shfan on August 12, 2019, 11:55:27 am
Mrs SHFan is on maternity leave and likes to go to bed a reasonable time, SHFan jr is 5 months now, so I need to start to get more hands-on with looking after him, I still manage to get some time in the evenings or when madame and the little one are visiting someone, but when I'm daddy daycare we'll just have to see how it works out. Got the feeling it'll be handhelds for a few minutes here and there.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: doafan on August 12, 2019, 11:57:07 am
Being married with three kids plus a full time job six days a week everybody would say that's nearly impossible to have some free time for games but not for me, that's why I always carry with me all the time to any place my 2DS, I do play at any chance that I have, most of the times at work when have the hours with more strees, at nights after my kids go to sleep my wife and I love to play Animal Crossing New Leaf, we help each other in our respective towns, at weekends I play with my daughter, have been teaching her since she was 4 years old and am proud to say that she is pretty good, my little boys still can't hold the controllers but eventually I'll teach them too, gonna create a powerfull team at Gears of War  8)
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: azure on August 16, 2019, 09:09:38 pm
Free time for games is the most difficult thing for me as I get older. Having other hobbies, responsibilities and a career really can't put a halt to things. I try to make time for games when I can, but sometimes other hobbies/responsibilities get in the way.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: masamune on August 17, 2019, 09:54:35 am
I usually play on the weekends.

For those that really have a full plate, may I suggest creating a schedule where you fit in a time slot for video game playing.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: Cartagia on August 18, 2019, 08:21:44 am
When I've got a game I'm really trying to play I attempt to get in at least 30 - 60 minutes a day.  If its on Switch that's even better, because then I don't have to hog the TV.
Title: Re: Free time for games
Post by: hoshichiri on August 18, 2019, 10:11:21 am
No kids, but two jobs & no car means a lot of time at work or on the bus going to/from work. The commute overall isn't that long, which is a double-edged sword: easier to do, but no time to pull out the switch & get any meaningful time in.

I squeeze chores in before & after work & rely a lot on online shopping for errand-type things (I can do that on the bus rides). That way, when short days & off days come up, I can put in a more serious chunk of gaming time. I've also gravitated away from the RPGs of my youth & play a lot more short indie games. It's like the cappuccino of gaming- small volume, big feels. I also put more time into retro- I don't often finish, mind you, but I get though a lot more game before I get stuck than similar modern titles. Also- at least for retro- I CHEAT. I cheat like crazy! I'm not ashamed- I've proven I can beat the first 6 stages already, I'm not gonna repeat them endlessly to get the ending if I can level-skip past. I got better ways to spend my time! Gimme those unlimited lives, I'll run 'em like water til' the credits roll! WHOO!