Author Topic: Game collecting addiction  (Read 4201 times)

Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #15 on: October 10, 2019, 07:25:00 am »
I can see this being a very serious problem, I must admit there is a thrill of receiving bundles of games throughout the post throughout the week - especially after a lousy day at work.

I found most recently that I impulsively bought an Xbox One S & immediately regretted the decision 7 got a refund before they sent it - While the appeal of backwards compatible titles upscales is very appealing, I can't justify having another console around just for that, I really don't need an Xbox One.

Most recently I have put a lot into the Shenmue III release - I've bought 7 various copies of the game from my original KickStarter copies to retail/online releases. It's the 1st time I've ever gone so wild over a single release but I love everything this game stands for and the fact that it has made a comeback is something I want to support and get involved in.

Beyond that, I am getting better at not buying games Day One, especially if Season Passes are involved, if there is any indication of an incoming Complete Edition, I will wait the game out a year or so. Fighting Games are the worst for this - But even today I snagged a copy of Dead or Alive 6 for £10, but from what I have seen the Season Pass offers very little to the game really.

Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #16 on: October 10, 2019, 10:41:33 am »
I was never addicted, but it certainly was something I spent a lot of time and money on for many years. In the early days I spent most of my free time visiting thrift stores, flea markets, and Craigslist to find deals on games I wanted, and it was something I really, really enjoyed. From about 2010 until 2013 were amazing years, and even after that the hobby still had its high points, and I still continued to look for cheap games in the wild and online, albeit less often gradually since I stoped finding good deals as often. Despite all this I never spent so much money on games that I wasn't able to pay my bills and I certainly never ruined any relationships I had as a result of my interest in collecting. As of now I guess I'm still technically a collector, but I do not actively collect anymore, but rather just pick games up that I want to play right after buying them, and on rare occasions find a game that has sentimental value and will buy it if the price is right.


I've certainly seen what game collecting addiction looks like in this hobby however. There are two collectors specifically that come to mind when I think of addiction in this hobby. The first guy was actually a friend of mine for a while and his intense, obsessive personality made him ripe for becoming addicted to video games. He used to hunt for games at all waking hours that he wasn't at work, and even then he would look for games on the way to service calls or on his breaks. I belonged to a facebook group that he belonged to as well and nearly everyday he'd post pickups on the level of what the flea posts here every other week or so in the pickups thread. His collection was massive as well as a result of this. I later found out the darker side of his collecting addiction. At one point he was spending $5000 to $12,000 a month on video games, and even with flipping doubles he got severely into debt because of his collecting habit. He was actually forced to sell big chunks of his collections to get out of this debt several times, but of course all he did was buy more and more games after that debt was resolved. The other guy I know who was definitely a collecting addict was pretty similar, but his story is a lot more sad. He is a trust fund kid, but also works full time which is respectable. But what's sad is his collecting is more a symptom of hoarding I think than of being genuinely interested in collecting. He had several local collectors over a while back and his house looks like a giant storage unit with video games, toys, odd collectibles, and all kinds of other stuff literally literally litered in every room in his house. Essentially his house looks like an episode of hoarders, but with fun stuff everywhere. He also has like 6 cars, half of them don't run. He has some serious, serious problems and you can tell that video game collecting is not just an addiction, but a compulsion for him that he doesn't recognize.
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Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #17 on: October 10, 2019, 11:08:33 am »
It’s never been a problem for me.

When I was a teen I probably spent a little too much on card games, but I still lived at home and had no other expenses.

Once I was out on my own I spent several years living paycheck to paycheck, which gave me an appreciation for when I was able to spend a little extra - that I’ve made it a point to never over do.


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Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #18 on: October 11, 2019, 12:00:35 am »
Addicted? Nah, never really had an issue with the "need" of wanting to buy a games.

Spending more than I should have? Sure. I think a lot of people on here have spent a decent amount of cash for games. But nothing to the point of making it a financial burden for myself. These days I just get my games on sale, no point of getting Day 1 anymore since prices drop quite fast.

Having an urge or need of wanting to get games on a daily basis just to build up a collection is a bit excessive in my book.
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Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #19 on: October 11, 2019, 12:29:38 am »
Not addicting but I did have a moment a few months back where I felt I needed to snap out of it. I looked at my collection and took a look at a fair amount of games I didnt want or at the very least would want to play but was okay with not having at the moment. As a result, I took said games out of my shelf and put them in boxes for selling or trading in to a local game shop. Since then, I have significantly slowed down the games I bought in store which honestly is a nice change of pace. Granted, I will say I have bought more PC games due to having obtained a gaming laptop that can run decently compared to what I had before but the very least they arent taking up physical space which is fine with me. Point is that I am more calculated with what I want and urge to splurge if you will isnt in the back of my mind especially with cheaper games for the sake of being cheap.

Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #20 on: October 11, 2019, 12:54:16 am »
Not really, at least I don't think so- I'm pretty sure I have a much higher threshold for top pricing on games than a lot of folks here (I've gone up to $300 in the past), but it's never cut into important things (or much into other hobbies either). When I get paid, my money goes as follows: Bills, savings, needs (think bus fare & shampoo), other wants, then videogames. With the exception of desireable LRG games, it's probably gonna be around later anyway, so no rush. If I do buy one of those crazy-expensive games, one of two things has happened: either I just sold a bunch of stuff on Ebay, or I've set aside bits of extra spending money that didn't get spent to go towards a big splurge in the future.

The closest I ever came was summer 2016, when I bought a Switch, Xbox One, and New 3DS XL (with accessories & games) all in the same week. But- I'd saved up enough money to buy all of that, specifically. It was more a coincidence of sales & availability that landed it all so close together. Sure felt odd though- easily the most I've spent on games in such a short period.

Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #21 on: October 12, 2019, 03:58:46 am »
I've never been addicted to collecting because i've never had the money to be addicted in the first place lol

Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #22 on: October 14, 2019, 02:22:06 pm »
Space kills me. I feel like every time I come home from work with a bag full of cartridges or cases my wife gives me a dirty look. Not because I'm spending money mind you, but because I'm filling our tiny apartment with more stuff.

I do have to be mindful at times. I tend to blow my game budget at the beginning of the month, then find myself at the local vintage stores later in the month dropping a 20$ here and there only to find at the end of the month I was way over budget, but on paper I should have been fine. But honestly it's never been bad enough to be upset or worried about.

I'm more worried about the student loan debt... they should never give 18 year olds that much money...

Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #23 on: October 14, 2019, 02:57:34 pm »
I have extremely compulsive collector tendencies. That runs in my family.  My grandfather used to collect everything from cars, to toys, to guns to airplanes to hotwheels.  And although I have been going light on games recently,  I 100 percent put the foot on the gas with Funko Pops toys and Corgi WW2 airplane diecasts that I collect earlier in the year.   I also have taken up two new hobbies,  baseball and archery.   


So with the confines of space,  my game room is getting filled extremely fast.   I collect so many things that I try to keep it neat, organized and clean to make sure it's collecting and not hoarding.  But space is making it to the point where the line is starting to get blurred.


I have a small collection of games but I wouldn't say I was ever full blown addicted to buying them.  I got bad for a moment with Amiibos.  But have since calmed down a bit.   I think I got unhealthily addicted to collecting pops.  I was just buying any random one I saw.  And it was getting out of hand.   I bought about 150 pops in a 2 week span and had I not planned a trip to texas that took most of my funds.   I probably would have went overboard.


I think the key i'm using now is planning big events.  It helps me take a step back and ease up on buying so much.  Because I have no choice if I want to save up enough for said event. 


If something catches my eye that I love,  like say a Babe Ruth statue that I want really bad.  I will most likely end up buying it.   And it's a unhealthy trait I suppose.   But I think it's extremely fun and I love all of what I have.  :D.   So long as it doesn't interfer with your basic essential functions like eating, sleeping, staying clean or having money for obligations like your children, wife and bills.  Than I think having some treats here and there keeps a puppy happy :)







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Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #24 on: October 15, 2019, 10:03:56 am »
I still have some idea that $50 is a lot of money. So there are many things I will not buy simply because of the price. I'd say that the average price that I buy something for is $2. You don't need to have a lot of money to have a collecting habit.

sworddude

Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #25 on: October 15, 2019, 10:45:09 am »
I still have some idea that $50 is a lot of money. So there are many things I will not buy simply because of the price. I'd say that the average price that I buy something for is $2. You don't need to have a lot of money to have a collecting habit.

i absolutely agree with that for pretty much all systems I have seen plenty of collectors with walls of trash.

couple hundred ps2 games or pretty much the cheaper genesis snes games nothing notable at all maybe a mario world and some sonic games. the ps2 games could have been bought for only a couple of tenners for everything and not much more for the filler titles on snes or genesis as lose carts or with sega at least with them boxes.

you can get a very sizable collection with little cash that should not be an issue if where talking about needing allot of money to become addicted to collecting.
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Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #26 on: October 15, 2019, 04:15:35 pm »
I still have some idea that $50 is a lot of money. So there are many things I will not buy simply because of the price. I'd say that the average price that I buy something for is $2. You don't need to have a lot of money to have a collecting habit.

i absolutely agree with that for pretty much all systems I have seen plenty of collectors with walls of trash.

couple hundred ps2 games or pretty much the cheaper genesis snes games nothing notable at all maybe a mario world and some sonic games. the ps2 games could have been bought for only a couple of tenners for everything and not much more for the filler titles on snes or genesis as lose carts or with sega at least with them boxes.

you can get a very sizable collection with little cash that should not be an issue if where talking about needing allot of money to become addicted to collecting.

I'm glad I didn't start this way, otherwise I might really have a problem. I'm trying to slowly get big ticket items I like and know I will play (along with all my original stuff from childhood). I just simply don't have the space to buy like that, though I honestly look forward to the day when I can grab big lots and start the "trade-up" strategy. I just don't have the space to put the extras and doubles, and shelves/storage for all the games I know I won't play.

EDIT: Does that make me a collector then, or just a gamer? 300+ physical games is not the average amount, but certainly small potatoes compared to folks on here.
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Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #27 on: October 16, 2019, 02:37:52 am »
I bought about 150 pops in a 2 week span
No you didn’t

Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #28 on: October 16, 2019, 03:24:26 am »
I've never been addicted to collecting because i've never had the money to be addicted in the first place lol

I encourage you and others if you can't afford the big name popular titles at least try to get a couple of cheap games to keep you busy if you want.

My strategy for my game buying is buy the cheaper stuff first. Like for example instead of Mario Kart 64 try getting something like "Diddy Kong Racing" or "Mickey Speedway USA"  for the Nintendo 64 or maybe Crash Team Racing for the Original PlayStation.

But if you rather do other things with your're free time then, like I always say buy what makes you happy today. :)
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Re: Game collecting addiction
« Reply #29 on: October 25, 2019, 05:41:29 pm »
I must admit I have an addiction. I call it a fever. It comes and goes in phases.

What usually happens is when I get off from work, I'm tired and and want to relax. Going on video game sites and Ebay are my ways of decompressing  after a hard day's work.

This is mostly when I start buying stuff.  A few bucks here and there and next thing you know, I've spent more than I thought I did.

I spent almost $1,800 in September and more than $2,000 in August. It's like I can't help myself and it's difficult to determine what I should do.

Maybe thinking about my priorities like paying off debt and building a future with my girlfriend would help.

I do need to implement a monthly spending cap on my video game budget for sure. In the past, I did not put a cap on this area of my spending.