In response to the working out thing, I did Cross Fit in high school and it was by far the best workout regime I've ever done. I've been a member of 3 different gyms, I did cross fit for only a few months because it was expensive, but definitely the best. I also had a friend whos mom was a personal trainer and I did P90x for one round of 90 days. Cross fit just pushes you because you are with a group of people, you make friends and it becomes a competition and its fun like a sport and it breaks up the monotony of "I pick things up and put them down" which is what a gym is. If you can afford it I'd definitely recommend cross fit I was never in as good of shape than I was doing that.