Well, often times you'd end up spending more than you have or outright buying games left and right without even putting much thought into playing the ones you already have, sometimes even just buying out of FOMO, which on its own if left unchecked leads the pathway to a lack of self-control, so in that sense, I think spendthrift lulls should be taken as a blessing and wholly appreciated. Hardcore collectors probably don't give a shit.
As for me, I've hit pause a few times throughout my life, beginning all the way back in high school, with the biggest pause probably being around college; but I've also learned to impose them on myself as a way to just take control. I would say that for the most part, I used to be in the same boat as
sworddude given there were times for me where I wouldn't get anything new, and didn't even gave it much thought for months, to then there being moments where I went off the rails and got games almost non-stop for a good while. Case and point, back in 2013 when I got my PS3 I would genuinely say is when I spent the most I ever have on video games, literally amassing a three-digit collection before the end of that year; in fact, I kept on buying more, even filling the gaps for most of my other consoles and only stopped after I depleted my funds. After that moment I've been far more prudent than ever and have taken breaks from spending on video games. Although if I'm being honest, I have most of what I want in my collection, so whenever I end up getting a game or two usually is either for PS4 or Switch, meaning I'm not spending as much on video games as I used to at some point. As a matter of fact, I've been spending more on DVDs and Blu-rays than I ever thought I would thanks to Walmart and the magic of their discount bins, with a splurge or two on the side.
Overall, I don't regret the times I overspent, as I stretched every buck and managed to get great deals in the process, getting my collection to where it is today. Had I spent as immoderately as I did back when I was collecting comicbooks, then I'm sure I'd be beating myself over it and would have abandoned the hobby long before joining the website.
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I've heard before that sometimes gamers need a break from gaming and maybe that's where I'm at. [...]
Not just gamers, everybody needs a break from their hobbies once in a while. When a hobby starts feeling like an obligation or becomes a straining experience, then that should be the cue needed to step back and take a breather; in fact, I believe ruts are a healthy compromise that can be used as a way to seek other activities and help de-stress your mind in order to get back into the flow of things.