Advice?

[90snostalga]

Maybe this is not the place and if so that's fine.  Just let me know if it's not appropriate.  I wanted to see if I could possibly get anyone's opinion on something that happened between me and my wife that seems kind of strange to me?  If we should not talk about this stuff on this site thats cool.  I can understand. 

[soera]

Im up for a story. I live in the world of strange so its cool with me!

[disgaeniac]

Im up for a story. I live in the world of strange so its cool with me!

ditto

[disgaeniac]

Actually, 90'snostalgia, we have a 'dedicated' topic/thread that's, by default, a catch-all; ANY/ALL/OFF-Topic thread right here:

http://vgcollect.com/forum/index.php/topic,1942.0.html

[burningdoom]

I don't know if a video game message board is the best place for marital advice. I'm happily married, but then I'm not your average joe, either.

[desocietas]

Well, it's the off-topic area for a reason.  Obviously, any opinions or advice we offer would just be as if we were any acquaintance/friend of the OP.

As long as everything's civil, I don't see any reason why anyone would need to censor themselves here, especially in the event that this is (what the OP feels) a trusted, friendly, and open community for the members.

If anything, I should mention that these forum posts can be seen by anyone, whether they are logged in/registered or not.  So watch that personal info

[burningdoom]

Wasn't saying he wasn't allowed, sorry if it came off that way. I was just saying that maybe marriage advice should come from a more trusted or more professional source.

[foxhack]

I hesitate at letting such a topic be posted here.

What would happen if your wife were to find this thread? You'd only get in trouble. Talk to people offline that you already know. Go see a counselor. Or something.

[desocietas]

Wasn't saying he wasn't allowed, sorry if it came off that way. I was just saying that maybe marriage advice should come from a more trusted or more professional source.

Heh, I didn't think you meant it that way.  But yeah, I do agree with you since these issues can be very complicated and personal (plus, she might not like her business spread around!).

[tpugmire]

I think it's fine, depending on what it is. If it's a sex-based question, it probably shouldn't be posted here. Instead, send a pm to Foxhack, and include lots of pictures. I think pretty much anything else is fair game though.

[90snostalga]

Thanks for the responses.  Maybe I my word choice was not too great lol.  It's not a life or death situation or anything really crazy.  It was just a post I started in the heat of the moment when I was thinking she is hiding something from me or doing something that makes her self seem very suspicious and when I confronted her, she flipped out it.  Over the last month, I noticed only about 4 times when I would get on the internet, the history for the previous day when she mostly used our laptop, would be deleted!  So I confronted her, and she says she did not delete it.  No one else uses this laptop but me and her and I don't delete history.  AFter once, I let it go thinking its a computer and things happen.  But after so many times, I don't believe it's a coincidence any more.  She swears up and down she did not do it.  I don't know if she hit some kind of short cut really fast that did it but after a few times, it's weird.  We've al ways had a great relationship for over 2 years now but you never know when some thing could happen  I've had crazy relationships before

[90snostalga]

I think it's fine, depending on what it is. If it's a sex-based question, it probably shouldn't be posted here. Instead, send a pm to Foxhack, and include lots of pictures. I think pretty much anything else is fair game though.

LOL    I have no idea what to make out of this.  I read another post on the secret santa where some one asked if Foxhack wanted nauty mexican comics or something.  Now this lol.  Is there another joke or something about Foxhack and sex?

[soera]

Foxhack lives in Mexico. Thats where all the freaks hang out.

As far as your situation, I would not be able to offer you any sort of advice. I am the least jealous person ever. I strongly believe in a polyamorous lifestyle so anything goes in my life.

[stethebubble]

restore it back a few days and the history will still be there?
it coulld be she is buying you something for xmas?
or looking at porn

[90snostalga]

restore it back a few days and the history will still be there?
it coulld be she is buying you something for xmas?
or looking at porn

Just

Ahh a system restore.  That may work.  I'll have to try that.  Could be xmas too.   Just seemed strange.