I'd probably lean on the "SJW" (Not using that seriously) side of things, because I'm all for supporting diversity and creating better characters, particularly women who've gotten the shit end of things for years
I've always been a little bit confused by this sentiment. I'm not trying to start an argument, but have women truly had such a troubling history of representation in video games? It's true that games starring female characters are in the minority, but any time there's a playable woman in a game, she's almost always portrayed just as strong, brave and capable as any of the male characters.
Looking at some historical examples...
Gauntlet - the valkyrie isn't a meek bow user, she's a full on melee powerhouse
Street Fighter II - Chun Li was just as strong as any other character
Double Dragon II - there's no playable female characters, but female punks do attack you as an equal threat to male enemies
Castlevania III - Syphia has the most devastating attacks in the game
Super Mario Bros 2 - Peach's float ability makes her essentially the best character
Metroid - Samus obviously
Chrono Trigger - Not only is the brainiest character Lucca female, so is the brawniest with Ayla
Mortal Kombat - Isn't Sonya a special agent and martial arts expert?
Golden Axe - Tyris
The Simpsons Arcade - Even Marge and Lisa are just as strong as Homer and Bart
Those are just some of the most famous examples I can think of, there's tons of others scattered across old consoles. Of course there's gonna be crazy fanservice games like Oneechanbara and Senran Kagura (which I also enjoy), but these aren't anywhere near mainstream. I guess my point is that there are way more positive portrayals of women in games than people often give credit for. And for an industry that was for years targeted almost entirely at males, that's not too bad right?