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« on: December 08, 2025, 10:55:39 am »
I think there comes a time when everyone that dabbles in the world of selling stuff online deals with a less than desirable interaction. And really, the one I just experienced wasn't bad. Their item arrived and I got paid. Still. It wormed itself enough in me to head to this topic to post about it.
I had a listing for a CIB game. Someone reached out and asked if I would just sell them the box. I told them no. They asked how low I'd be willing to go to sell the item complete. I told them to send an offer so I could see how much I'd get after all the fees/taxes. The offer they sent was too low, so I declined. They asked AGAIN if I'd be willing to sell just the box. Their words: "Are you sure just don't want to sell the box?" I reiterated the same answer: no, the game will be sold complete and as is.
I sent an offer that would work for me and didn't hear back until about a week or so ago. They sent an offer that was less than the one I suggested. I declined. Their words: "Darn. I thought you were happy with [insert dollar amount here] before" (sic)
I responded that I was, but the number that they submitted was not that one I originally suggested. I sent the offer. They accepted! I packed up the item, shipped it, and it arrived. And then, I waited for them to rate me so I could get paid. For those that don't use Mercari, buyers have 72 hours to rate their experience/provide feedback/let the seller know of any issues. After 72 hours, buyers automatically get paid.
After 48 hours, I messaged them asking if things went okay with the delivery. Silence. It was on the final day just before the 72 hours that they rated me. I rated and reviewed them in return in order to get the funds. Now, y'all know ya boy loves to write reviews and can get wordy. This time was no different. As far as I could tell, I was firm but fair when I delineated the experience. The tl;dr version (more on that later) is that the buyer was on the difficult side and took long to rate.
Quick aside: why was it worth pointing out that the buyer took long to rate, you may ask? Well, we all know that we live in a society where we're glued to our phones. This person was normally responsive and quick with replying. So, to get radio silence when the package arrived, and to get radio silence when I asked if things went smoothly went against the MO.
Obviously, this person didn't care for the honesty and messaged me about it being rude. I replied that I didn't intend for it come across as rude (because goodness knows I could be) but I did want to point out that the entire interaction was odd. They also mentioned that they were traveling for work - hence their not rating me until the eleventh hour. Well, if they responded to my message about allegedly traveling for work, then I would have been like "cool". Again, people are glued to their phones. This person had ample time to respond.
They asked if I could delete the review. I told them no, and reminded them that 4/5 stars is still good. Somehow, they managed to get the review deleted - thus the reason why I can't copy and paste it on here. Their final message to me was "Reviews deleted [peace sign emoji]". I left one review, so I'm not sure if "reviews" was another typo or if he just want hog-wild and decided to delete other reviews that were less than 5 stars.
Anyways. I got paid. I never responded to their last message. I had a few steering wheel conversations about what I could/should say but you know what? I'll leave it. What's the term floating around nowadays? "Let them?" That's what I did. So, that's the story. Obviously, there won't be any more interactions with them.